While the last thing survivors need is more blame, our society supports a narrative that blames the objectively innocent party because the blatantly guilty party has spent their entire lives fabricating a persona and we’re just being human, and human psychology is quite counterintuitive especially in the context of trauma. Never actually understand, even if they try, because all they see is you, on fire, screaming about the arsonist that no one ever sees, and who has been spreading lies about your alleged mental instability, deceptive personality, etc. Anyways, I especially relate to her midnights becoming afternoons, complex PTSD often leads to this phenomenon, whether due to purposeful sleep deprivation by the abuser, or just hyper vigilance associated with the PTSD, along with the fear of facing people, especially your loved ones, who funny how you say the words domestic violence, abuse, abuse survivor and boom the subject changes. The abuser has no anxieties, no emotional pain, or salience/memory for that matter, so the survivor appears to be the crazy one, obsessed with the abuse and that buzzword that seems to ignite arguments about diagnosing people without a degree, etc. I believe this is another amazingly on point and nuanced commentary on the insanity that follows emotionally abusive relationships. I am not sure, just my interpretation :D Great song anyway you look at it! Part is showing she doesn't care about him in fact at all just getting back at him, she is willing to live her life while trying to get at him. And then the "Real good, we dance in the studio (the music video again) For instance: "but I won't stop" sounds a bit darker the rest. Or, for a crazy interpretation, the whole song is sarcastic and she just wants to get back at him. And she needs more fame then ever to settle herself, and it's driving her insane, (the whole stalker sound part of it) and then people die over it (in the music video for instance) So I am guessing the message is about how ame kills people. Like in the music video, it shows all these women killed by their spouses/boy friends. Well, watching the music video I think it may be talking about abuse, and how "she" will always love the "abuser" no matter what, even though he trys to kill her for fame. Purple teardrops I cry, it don't have a price Yeah 'cause you're my rock star in between the sets
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